I remember, years ago, after handing in a report to the mods on this one site, a senior admin told me that if I ever needed to quickly contact someone, use the chat room they had. When I eventually found myself in there, it became all too clear that only a handful of members and a bunch of mods were the only people who gave a damn about the chat. Nobody else bothered with it.
This very limited number of persons is why they stopped caring that the site's name was on the chat, thereby directly linking repeated and varied hardcore racist and sexist remarks to a family-friendly site. Remarks made by the staff and some friends of theirs. All of whom knew better.
So imagine their shame (read: lack thereof) when one admin who did not engage in such antics entered, saw a long stream of screaming racism as the topic title, and took issue with it directly to the site's owner.
Currently I'm butting heads with the owner of another site and one of his own senior mods. The owner is dangerously ignorant about the gravity of bigoted speech being used in topic titles in his forums, and the mod flat-out said that hate speech isn't a problem because some people use discriminatory language as a form of endearment. Because I have actually had to deal with personal, hate-motivated attacks in real life, and in a work environment no less, I refuse to accept such language.
I like that Weasyl's staff seems to give a damn about its userbase, though the limits thereof I have yet to see. I like that rules and policies are willing to be revised to be of better protection and clarity. I didn't come to this site for the camaraderie, that is true, but I find some small discussion here and there on the forums worth having and I have some small (though potentially large) use for the main site, so I suppose I'll come to appreciate things more in the future. We'll see.