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    "Open relationships" in the fandom are all too often just an excuse to be a slut.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rory View Post
    (...)Yeah, I worked hard at becoming relatively attractive and I'm not going to be ashamed of my effort, but all it has done is make the entirely shallow people show themselves. I'm just as clueless as you, but I've always just seen it as a thing of chance. The more you actively seek, the harder it gets, so might as well just hope to bump into someone who's good enough to want you first over others, and vice versa.
    There's the problem :x Don't try to broadcast that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BrazenBull View Post
    Yup. I don't even know. Do you think these people are trying to get you as some kind of "trophy"? Cuz that must suck all kinds of elephant shit.
    I'm not really trophy level, so I doubt it. Anyway, nothing I can do but hope to run into the right person for once. All one can hope for, at least.

    Back to grinding gears-y stuff in here, though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Billy MT View Post
    There's the problem :x Don't try to broadcast that.
    I really kinda don't outside of usually subtle hints, but people run under the false assumption I'm not single a lot.
    Last edited by Rory; 04-20-2014 at 02:21 AM. Reason: grammar fail

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tycho View Post
    "Open relationships" in the fandom are all too often just an excuse to be a slut.
    And?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hewge View Post
    And?
    There's a difference between being open, between being comfortable with sex and sexuality, between friends-with-bennies, etc. and being a person who pathologically seeks out sex like a meth addict looking for a fix, and does so with little concern for the hearts they break and the STDs they spread. The latter is a slut.

    Sluttiness is not a matter of what's between your legs, sluttiness is not a matter of enjoying sex, sluttiness IS a matter of being obsessed with fucking to the point of feeling entitled to fuck whoever you want whenever you want however you want, regardless of the physical or mental/emotional consequences for those you fuck. Sluttiness is the evil twin to sexuality.

    In my opinion sluttiness usually comes from people centering their self-worth around how many people they've fucked. The need to prove one's "worth" leads to a constant, hedonistic drive to mount anything that will hold still long enough for them to do so.
    Last edited by Tycho; 04-20-2014 at 02:33 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tycho View Post
    There's a difference between being open, between being comfortable with sex and sexuality, between friends-with-bennies, etc. and being a person who pathologically seeks out sex like a meth addict looking for a fix, and does so with little concern for the hearts they break and the STDs they spread. The latter is a slut.

    Sluttiness is not a matter of what's between your legs, sluttiness is not a matter of enjoying sex, sluttiness IS a matter of being obsessed with fucking to the point of feeling entitled to fuck whoever you want whenever you want however you want, regardless of the physical or mental/emotional consequences for those you fuck. Sluttiness is the evil twin to sexuality.

    In my opinion sluttiness usually comes from people centering their self-worth around how many people they've fucked. The need to prove one's "worth" leads to a constant, hedonistic drive to mount anything that will hold still long enough for them to do so.
    I thought this was called "nymphomania."
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vae View Post
    I thought this was called "nymphomania."
    Nymphomania is a mental illness. Sluttiness is something that is willfully nurtured. It's the difference between a person who lies because they are unable to determine truth from untruth and right from wrong, and someone who lies because it's convenient for them and they think they can get away with it, and they have for long enough that they see no reason to stop.

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    Quote Originally Posted by XoPachi View Post
    I've never really spoken to people in this fandom about the subject so I wouldn't even be able to accurately assess that. Well...no one can, but me even less so.
    It seems to me that as of late the fandom has become a "place" where sex and the pursuit of sexual gratification is venerated to an unhealthy degree. We're starting to see a huge increase in the amount of porn on Weasyl's front page after the latest FA exodus, too. I fear that Weasyl's going to become the same wretched hive of scum and villainy that FA turned into.

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    You seem upset, Tycho.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hewge View Post
    You seem upset, Tycho.
    Is this where you post a "smug troll" face or something? You're going to have to do better than that.

 

 

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